Relationship Coaching

When your primary relationship is distressed your whole world can feel upside down and stressed out. When you understand what you need and what your partner needs to feel secure, healing can be done quickly and deeply. All upsets stem from feeling insecure in some way.

Working with me you will understand and learn about:

• Your reactive cycle and how to stop taking each other into the hole.

• The way you and your partner scare each other.

• Calming each other down.

• How to repair after you have triggered each other.
• Your partner’s unique personality type, as well as your own. You can gain key insights into your relationship dynamic when you understand that different personalities have different ways of processing.

I have had the good fortune of being trained by  John Grey, who has synthesized the work of  Sue Johnson, Stan Tatkin, the enneagram, Non-violent Communication and Somatic Experiencing. The result is a powerful healing modality for living in relationship.

After assisting John in his couples retreats for years and having successfully applied the principles to my own marriage, I work with couples to repair attachment bonds and create secure relationships.

When you use these tools with coaching support your relationship can have deeper intimacy, trust and understanding. You can turn your relationship around and get through tough sticking points. As a result, this path is healing and empowering, leading to more joy, connection and security in your relationship.

 “Thank you for believing in us. We are going to make it—make it in the sense that for the rest of our lives we will have that calm, that peace, that trust and hold each other in safety. You helped us manifest these qualities and we are grateful.”     ~ L and M Calvi

Sessions are $125 an hour or $150 for 1.5 hours.

Take a block of time:

3 hours: $300

One day, 6 hours: $600

Two days, 6 hours each day: $1,100

Three days, 6 hours each day: $1550

Call for a free 20-minute consultation: 707-971-0340